Hear me out!

As a single man with not much experience with relationship a lot of pepole probably wonder how can i speak on relationships. Thats an answer i can't give you, but i will say that we all have a right to make an opinion. A lot of times i wonder what happen to all the good women in the world. Asking the question you recieve a lot of different answers. Not trying to make an excuse for women all around the world but what happen is the fellas. Make no mistake i don't put all the blame on fellas it also falls on Music/Tv. The music we listen too and the things we see on tv mis leads all of us. Music and Videos tells people to live a life that we can't live, it puts us in this fantasy world that these rich people live. it tells us not to be ourselves be something that we can't be. Now fellas, most fellas let rap music live their life for them. Guy's ain't shit i admit it, they prove that everyday. Guys are the reason there are so few good women out here. Guys take advantage of the fact that women are naturally soft, and they play with there fellings and they're hearts. A girl with a good heart meets a guy with a fuck'd up heart and a fuck'd up mentality and he turns that good heart to a cold one. It a shame but it also a reality, and it everywhere. I have guys in my family with girls, in my opinion great girls, but for some reason it seem like they can't do right with they girls. Now grant it i'm not with these girls or never benn wit they girls so i don't know everything that goes on. From what i see and what i know about these girls personality, these are really good girls. Girls that i would love to have, girls that i wish i can find out here in the world now days. Not impossible, but hard. Fellas if you find a good girl, jus behave. Is it really that hard? God has blessed you with a really good girl, treat her right, do right by her, treat her the way you expect a guy to treat your mother. I know girls that, just by talking to them, you can tell that inside they have good hearts, but you ask them about there past relationship you learn that past guys have did them so wrong, and you understand why they have such strong guard. Guys carry the mentality of being a player and having all the girls, then forget how to treat good girl. Ladies your not innocent, stop allowing guys to treat you this way. You fall in love with these guys and get so attached that you can't let go. You make yourself so vulnerable to be done wrong when you keep running back or allowing these guys to do this too you. Understand that you do have a good heart, and you do deserve better, and there are guys out there that would love to have you. Stop chasing guys that clearly don't want you or don't know how to treat you right. Ladies we're not dumb, we see that your stuck on us, and most guys use that to there advantage and use you, do things they know is not right, thats not what you approve of. Guys don't know how to appreciate that you like him enough to keep coming back after he's done bad once or twice, these guys ladies, you need to stay away from!!!! Please!!! For the few good women that left out there. Stay good please, protect your feelings, your heart and some good guy will eventually come your way i promise!