Letting People Go

I hate having to let people go. As an empathic person, who cares, it a terribly demoralizing thing to do. Letting go of some relationships are easier to do than others, because all the relationships you have in life, some you simply value more than others.

Even if letting a person go is the right thing to do, it not what we built a relationship for. Regardless of the type of relationship,  rather it be companionship, association-ship, friendship, intimate relationship, We don't like to lose, and letting go, feel likes a lost.

However, it is vital to your quality of life to know and understand that In life You train people how to treat you. With that said If you allow people to manipulate, deceive and abuse you in any way or form, they will continue to do it. You have to let your feelings count. And sometimes that simply mean cutting ties. Growth happens in many ways and form,  good and bad,  we all grow, every day,  and many times in growth, we grow in different directions than the people dearest to us.

In the words of my auntie Iyanla "Baby, you got meet people where they are,  you have to meet people where they are, but sometimes, sometimes you have to leave them there."